This is Bobby's family party!

哈哈，写字没有了灵感，发张照片，宿舍靓照，欢迎大家光临哦！

这篇文章是在网上找到的，里面讲的一些技巧应该对大家有所帮助，以前还转发过一片文章《英语专四听力备考技巧浅谈 》希望大家也把它看看，写的很好。听力是我们的薄弱环节特是NEWS&DICTATION，希望大家多听！多练！

写到这里眼前好像又浮现出当时复习的日日夜夜。我只想对我可爱的06级家庭成员们说：专四不难，因为它还是属于应试考试，不是完全的能力测试。这也就意味我们可以通过一段时间的强化复习来突击它。只要我们有勇气、毅力和一个正确的方法，我们一定会“开花结果”！！！！！

今天和一个老同学在QQ上碰到了，聊着聊着我们就谈到了爱情这个话题，他问我有没有女朋友，我说没有，但是我和一个女孩有一个约定：从现在开始，两年时间，她找男朋友，我找前途，如果两年后，她没有找到男朋友的话，我就娶她。呵呵...这个约定的发生很有意思。一天晚上，我非常的郁闷，就给她打了电话。她非常耐心地开导我，我突然觉得她就是我要找的人，所以就有了这个约定。

现在想来，很是有趣。这个女孩是一个非常非常好的女孩。很单纯，很善良。可是我不知道我对她的感觉是爱或是喜欢？什么是爱？什么是喜欢？我不知道。

以前带过的一个学生，给过我一首诗，昨天我有把翻出来仔细读了读，可能这首诗能告诉我答案......

今天，早上，我，漫无目的地在网上浏览着网页。不知是怎么，就进入一个叫晓晓的人的博客，目光顺着鼠标，停在了一行文字上，“人生值得珍藏的42句话”，打开之后，认认真真地读了每一句，当时的感情无以言表。就觉得我又一次看到了人生的太阳，那么的温暖、那么的明媚！清洗着全身每一个毛孔。是啊，这的确是我们值得珍藏的文字。永远，永远......

 

这几天的天气出奇的好，阳光明媚，蓝蓝的天空，雪白的云彩，使人心中感到非常的舒服。不知不觉中，新的学期马上就要过去一半了，在这新的学期里，我们的家庭又有了新的成员，他们是那样地可爱，那样地有活力，使我也深受感染，好像也把我拽回了大学时代。

新的学期，新的变化。在这个学期里，我所有的课都是用多媒体来上的，这对我来说是个不小的挑战。因为是第一次，所以一切还在摸索中。最大的感受有两点：一是用多媒体授课使课堂讲授的内容更有条理性。一张，一张，一张……做PPT的过程就是一个教师理清授课内容、抓住课堂重点的过程。以前拿粉笔黑板上课，也有一个条理，但是有时会出现讲哪算哪的情况，现在有了PPT，上课的大框架在授课时是无法改动的。如果突然灵感乍现的话，我们还有粉笔可以帮忙。二是用多媒体上课，锻炼了我的打字速度。一周的课基本上要做30张左右的PPT，备课从以前的拿一本字典伏案而写，到现在对着电脑不停的敲。回头看看，现在打字速度，不论是中文还是英文，都有很大的提高啊。哈哈！  

多媒体还帮我完成了我迟到一年的诺言。去年给06级同学说要看电影，可是一直没有实现。今年有了多媒体，终于可以使我再次“堂堂正正地”做人了。

是啊，我们应该回头再看看了。写作课和泛读课，对我来说，是一个非常非常大的挑战。要把这两门课上好不是那么容易。写作课可能会给同学一种感觉是课堂上老师讲了很多写作的技巧，怎么用词，怎么写好句子，文章怎么布局等等。可是课后当同学们拿起笔时，又觉得老师讲的我怎么用不上呢？泛读课的问题是如何在提高同学们阅读质量和阅读速度的同时，使泛读课更加有趣。换句话说，如何使一门英语技能课在训练学生技能的同时，提高学生的思维和交流能力、培养学生的人文素质？从某种意义上说，我认为人文素养的培养和积淀比技能的训练，对于一名大学生，一个社会人来说，更加重要。

这就是我面临的问题，也是我努力要解决的问题。幸运的是，还有很多人站在我的身边同我一起寻找解决问题的答案，他们就是我可爱的学生—我的家庭成员！希望06级、07级的家庭成员，大家看到这篇文章后，能把你们这半学期上课的感受、对我的意见和建议（包括授课方式、课堂内容等等）、以及你们对咱们这门课的想法，everything，作为留言写下来（请注明年级和班级）。我会认真地读每一个人的文字，认真地思考大家的意见和建议。我想，只有我们共同努力，我们才能真正地享受每一堂课！谢谢大家，谢谢！  

Make sure your love is unconditional. Make sure you love people in all kinds of "weather". Or else what is the use if we love a person only when he is good or she is nice? When I need the people most thats when they leave me. All the time. So please, I hope you wont be like that. We always have to consider the other party, your companions situation and mood. Maybe hes in difficulty right now. Thats why his mood is not so sweet.

 

Maybe she has so much work to do and so many headaches, so she cannot be so darling like usual. That time is the time when we need to show our most noble quality, the way we want ourselves to be.

Its not that if you are sweet to that person then he will love you more. Maybe he will, maybe he wont. But that is not the point to be good and to be noble. To be good, to be noble is for ourselves because we choose to be that way, we want to keep being that way, and we feel good about it. Its not because, "Okay, now he needs me more. If I show more sympathy, then our love will be stronger"; Its not even to be considered.

But most of the time we fail the test. When people are in most difficulty, we just leave them, or we are cold and indifferent. "Oh, youre not nice to me. All right, all right.";"Youll come and need me soon."; Of course they will. When theyre in a better mood, when everything goes better, of course theyll come around. But then its too late. Then it is not love anymore. Its just a need for each other. Thats different, because you are used to each other and you need each other sometimes out of habit, out of convenience, out of financial security reasons -- anything. But its not true love.

True Love Always Prevails

True love is we stick together in "thick and thin";. Especially when its thin, when its troublesome. Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". Thats what they say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to our partners. He might leave you, he might stay with you, because youre nice or not nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself. You leave the most noble being that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us. Most of the time in critical situations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.

Of course we have our anger, our frustrations, because our partners are not as loving as usual, or whomever that is; but he or she is in a different situation. At that time, she or he is in mental suffering. Its just as bad or even worse than physical suffering. Physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and it stops or at least temporarily stops, and you feel the effect right away; or at least if people are in physical suffering, everyone sympathizes with them.

But when they are in mental anguish, and we pound them more on that, and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent, that is even more cruel, even worse. That person will be swimming alone in suffering. And especially they trust us as the next of kin, the next person, the one that they think they can rely on in times of need; and then at that time, we just turn around and are snobbish, because they didnt treat us nice so we just want to revenge. Thats not the time. You can revenge later, when hes in better shape. Just slap him.

Actually, at that time, the person is not his usual self anymore. He was probably under very great pressure that he lost his own control. Its not really lost his own control, but for example, when you are in a hurry, your talk is different. Right? "Hand me that coat! Quick! Quick! Quick!" Things like that. But normally, you would say "Honey, please, can you give me that coat." Is that not so? (Audience: Yes.) Or when youre in pain -- for example stomach pain, heartache or whatever -- you scream loudly; and anyone who comes to talk to you, you dont talk in the usual way anymore, because youre in pain.

Similarly, when you are in a mental or psychological pain, you talk also in a very grouchy way, very cross. But that is understandable. So if we -- any so-called loving partner or family member -- do not understand even this very least, very basic concept, then were finished. Then we are really in a bad situation. Its not that the partner will do anything to us. Whether he does anything to us later or not, that is no problem. The problem is us. The problem is we degrade ourselves, that we make less of a being of ourselves than we should be, than we are supposed to be, or that we really are. So do not make less of a being of yourselves.

Bobbys words,

Love, to me, is as mysterious as poetry. What is love? love is a certain feeling.Love means pounding hearts and blushing faces. Love is devotion. Love is ...... This question seems to have no definite answers. Yet I think it is more important that we should learn to love. Everyone desires to love and be loved by others. We all hope that our life is full of love. That is the reason I share this passage with you. My brothers and sisters, let’s learn to love people in all kinds of weather.

 

Dear Bobby :
    I am Tina.I choose this way to express my sorry and other feelings to you .Precisely to say,it was when you came upon us and criticised us for our behaviour that my heart started to get heavier and heavier ---because your serious remarks as well as your attitudes at the moment left me a sense of nervousness and regretting for what we had done.
indeed,we konw clearly that talking loudly or freely in the class is very rude,and it inevitably shows our disrespect for teachers to some extent though in fact we do not mean that.So,I send my sincere apology to you for what I have done.Besides,I want to share some of my ideas with you.
Before the class began,someone told me that Bush came across with some bad thing or,bad luck.I wondered whether he was still in a low mood and wanted to cheer him up.You konw ,we come from the same province ,he cares so much about me as well as other girls in our class. At the same time,we have not talked with each other for a long time ,so there was just a strong feeling in my heart pushing me to chalt with him.Maybe I did the right thing at the very wrong time,but we really did not mean to anger you .sorry. But on the other hand,I felt happy since I tried to bring happiness to my friend,though it was ended with failure.
    After pouring out my feelings,I felt much better.sorry to trouble you spending your time reading my words.thank you!

Bobby:
    或许这些文字还不能清晰地表达我的真切意思，更或许它会给你一种我是在找借口与理由的感觉，但只要你坚持把它看完了，我就很感谢你，真的．做错了事就要去深刻反省，这道理我也知道．只是现在的我开始慢慢变得麻木，幸好有你不时得用话语或行动来刺激我及其他同学．谢谢．

Dear Tina,

     First of all, I apologize to you for my improper behavior. I was truly angry at that moment when observing you, Vivien and Bush chatting in class. I stared at you three but you ignored me. That is why I scolded you during the break. After class, I felt very regretful, because we are family members and I should have figured out the whole thing. Thank you for writing these words to me. Thank you for your sincerity. Being sincere is of vital importance in a family. In our family, I teach you, and you teach me. We together learn to love.

     Have a good day!

                                                                            Bobby

翁帆和杨振宁的婚姻，在很多中国人眼中是不可思议的，两个人年龄相差太大，怎么可能产生爱情？难道是翁帆动机不纯，或是杨振宁太老了，昏了头。作为一个学外语的人，我觉得他们的结合很正常，促使他们在一起的真是那纯洁的爱情。很多人可能不同意我的观点。一个很偶然的机会我在网上看到了翁帆给杨振宁写的这封信，从字里行间中我们可以清晰地感受到翁帆那炙热的感情，在这里和大家来分享，不是想说服大家。不论你对他们的婚姻持什么态度，我们仅仅是把这封信当作一篇英文美文来欣赏吧。

    Cold here, icy cold there. You belong to neither, leaves have withered. Your face is pale and blue, a tearful smile. Something in your eyes, whispers words of last good-bye. My heart sinks down, tears surge out.
    Hot summer. Cheerful Cocktail. You took my hand. We fled into another world of band. You sat by my side, long hair tied behind, cool and killing. Smile floating on the lemonade, soft and smooth. How I was ?amazed. Your face looked like the cover of the magazine. My head spin. You led my hand, danced along the crazy theme.
    Light vied with wine, elegance mixed with fragrance, laughing covered by greetings, the crowed was busy at handshaking. You stood there, eyes on me. I trembled at the sparkles, brighter than the light. A masterpiece from God, I felt dizzy. We were not near, yet we were together. 
    Days ended. You said, you would wait for me at th e Alps side. We would ski against snowflakes dancing in the sky. I gave no answer but a good-bye to accompany your flight. Gone was the plane, I suddenly tasted my pain. I knew I had been silly and stupid, you were in my heart, I shouldn ’t have hidden in the dark. I tried to forget your disappointment. I made believe sometime someday, I would tell you, I feel all the same.

     My thought struggled at confessing, somehow hesitation ended in flinching. I continued my role of a fool, clinched to my maiden pride, yet secretly indulged in your promise of the white land -- snow measuring down to us, in your arms I am lifted up. The chiming of Christmas bell! 
     The bell died in the patter of rain, from hell came the laughing of Satan at my brain. Tearful smile, swallowed by the darkness. How could I trace your hair to wipe your tears? My hands reached out, catching nothing but a raindrop, on a leaf that had withered. Snowflakes have melted into water, we are no more together.

在科大，有这样一位老师……

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他除了完成学校安排的每周三次的课时之外，
强制性的给学生另加三次课并且每次都点名生怕哪个学生不重视他的教课。

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他每天都要布置一大堆他估计足够学生不吃不喝学习到熄灯时分的作业，
次日上课之前就收上来，批改到深夜坚持第二天早上学生就能拿到他评语丰富的作业本。

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他可以把作业错误比较多的同学抓到他家里，
像教育小学生一样一个一个指出他们错误的根源并且强迫他们当场重做
直到保证他们再遇到类似的题目都能所向披靡。

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他规定每周日下午两点北东101为例行测试的时间地点，没有特殊原因所有人都必须参加
周一上课之前他会用巨大的红字把昨天测验前五名的名字和分数写在黑板上，
并“煽动”大家用热烈的掌声向他们表示祝贺！

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他会在吃完晚饭后，游荡在各大教学楼的走廊里，
一旦看到有自己的学生，他就会以迅雷不及掩耳盗铃之势冲到他身边坐下
热情的询问他可否有不明白的地方。

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他的超强纠错环绕立体声振的整栋教学楼似乎都在颤抖
他常常挥舞着双手，用铿锵有力的声调恐吓他的学生们：
“你们非常危险，非常危险，如履薄冰，如临深渊呐！”

在科大，有这样一位老师，
他每周都会突袭的收上学生们的听课笔记并认真审阅，
做的特别好的笔记，还会在同学们手中互相传阅号召大家像这位同学学习。

在科大，有这么一群学生，
被他们的高数老师折磨的死去活来，
经常熄灯后还点着蜡烛加班加点的完成明天要交的作业，
并发出“为高数而活”的感叹。

在科大，有这么一群学生，
他们无法理解一个六十多岁的老头哪里来的那么大干劲，
每周上六次高数课，纵然我们是铁打的也会崩溃
更何况还有一大堆作业和每周的例行考试。

在科大，有这么一群学生，
羡慕地眼睁睁地看着同龄人在窗外追逐在花前月下浪漫在虚拟世界里自由的翱翔，
而他们只有悲哀的叹口气，继续似乎永远看不完的书做不完的题。

在科大，有这样一群学生，
他们编造出各种各样有关高数老头的笑话和段子，借此满足自己“打击报复”的欲望。
他们也曾嘲笑、讽刺甚至诅咒过那个让他们寝食难安的老头，以此打造紧张的学习气氛的空隙中点点星星可怜的娱乐项目。

在科大，有一群学生，
当一年的最后一次高数考试结束的时候，他们痛哭流涕，他们奔走相告，
他们举杯庆贺，他们乐不思蜀。
他们在各大论坛上控诉老头的种种惨绝人寰的罪行，痛诉不堪回首的完全被高数占据的大一生活。

直到有一天，他们准备考研了……

他们不明白为什么那么多人在高数面前停住了脚步，
不明白为什么那么多人因为怕高数而放弃了自己原本要考的专业，
那么多人花了几百甚至几千块钱去参加所谓的高数考研辅导班？

而他们，虽然几年没有接触过高数了，但是拿起课本一翻所有的记忆瞬间都回来了，仿佛昨天学的一样
就像一块千年的石碑，拂去满面的尘土，上面的碑文立马清晰明了。

他们于是明白了，是他——那位曾经从小学数学教员考上北京师范大学数学系研究生毕业后回到陕西
从事大学高等数学教育三十余年教育学生无数至今仍是一无名无分的普通讲师的老头，
陕西科技大学理学院数学系的党四善——是他，用粉笔用尽全身力气在我们这些石碑上刻下了深深的文字
他选择了这样的方法，而不是把我们当成黑板轻轻的书写
他就是要让我们将来能用的上这些东西的时候随时可以把满布的尘土拂去！

如今的党老师，依然站在讲台上刻写他刻了一辈子的碑文
也许他手下的石碑们也因为忍受不了现行的痛苦折磨在背地里嘲笑他诅咒他
但是我相信有一天，他们会意识到周围的黑板上的字迹被岁月拂去不留踪影而他们的碑文坚不可摧
他们会从心里感激这位辛勤的工匠。

党老师，不知道您是否还记得我们这群幼稚的学生记得我们编的关于您的笑话
但是现在我们是真心的怀念您，祝福您，
希望您的晚年幸福，美满~~~~~~

 

亲爱的党老师，

您还好吗？不知为什么又把您的学生给你写的这首诗拿出来读。您知道我现在看着这首诗的情形吗？泪流满面！！！每一字，每一句都深深地刻在了我的心中。作为一名教师，一辈子能有学生给他写这么一首诗足以！

亲爱的党老师，读着这首诗，我觉得我实在是距离一个好老师差远了！！！我给学生做的太少太少了，备课有时偷懒，上课有时不是那么的细致，对学生的错误可能看到了，也可能会不给他指出来，更不用说给学生额外补课或者小测验。我是应该深深地反省反省。虽然整个社会是一个物欲横流的社会，但学校应该是一片净土，起码我们应该让我们自己保持作为一个教师的本色！尽到一个教师的责任！您就是我的榜样，永远的榜样！我会努力的。天气凉了，注意身体。

此致

 

                        敬礼

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